This post is dedicated to the questions that I'm most frequently asked in comments and private messages here at Vox. I figured that I'd compile all of the questions and answers together in one entry. This entry can then be used as a reference tool for any others that are curious about my life. To those who have asked, I hope this helps! I'll be adding more questions and answers as they arise. If anyone asks a question that has already been answered, I'll most likely give them the link to this post. ^_^
1. What camera do you use for all the photos you take?
All of the photos you see in my Vox are taken by me, with the exception of a few (that I note are taken by my sister). I've used three cameras to take my pictures, one that belongs to my whole family (that I have taken over, one that belongs to my sister, Beth, and a new one that belongs to only me.
My new camera is an Olympus C-7070 and is a complete dream. I received it at the beginning of 2007 and have been using it for my photography ever since then. So, the photos you see starting in January 2007 are most likely ones that are taking with my Olympus (which I've named Enzo).
My family camera is a Canon Digital Elph, SD100. It only has 3.2 megapixels, yet the clarity of the pictures it produces is pretty decent. I mostly used that one previous to 2007. Another reason my photos turn out so clear is because I use Photoshop to edit them. I think Photoshop is necessary to get the results that meet my personal demands.
I may use Beth's camera (another Olympus) from time to time, but very rarely. Now that I have Enzo, I have no need to borrow hers. Beth and I usually use our cameras for photoshoots between the two of us, and I've also used her camera to take photos of my Blythe dolls from time to time. In recent months, however, I have not used her camera.
2. So, what's with the dolls? Aren't they for, like, little kids?
Good question. I know that a lot of people have "concerns" for anyone that may step outside of the norm of adulthood, especially when toys are concerned. I think I'm a good example of a certain revolution that's taking place right now: The Urban Art Toys and Low Brow Art Revolution. I like to be different. I like the fact that most people I come across are shocked that a 23 year-old is obsessed with dolls and other toys. I use this to fuel me to be even more different and, in a way, outrageous. The thing is: the doll obsession is mostly only weird if you live in the United States. It's more accepted in places like Asia and Europe a lot more than it is in the states. In fact, if anything, the people within the states are outside the norm because they don't accept those who show an interest. That's not a bad thing-- it's just how life is.
I mostly collect Blythe dolls. Over the years that I've been collecting, I've had up to twelve or thirteen girls at a time. I've sold and traded many of my Blythes over the time. I just haven't bonded with many of them. The ones I have bonded with remain with me at either my apartment or my house.
Blythe dolls were originally made in the United States in 1972 but then failed to publicly lauch well. They were taken off the market for thirty years and then remade in 2001. Most of them are very pricey; they can range anywhere from $70-4000. I have never lost money when letting a girl go. In fact, I've only made profit because of them.
I don't think of my collecting Blythes as a money-making scheme. They're very real to me and I revolve my life around them to a crazy extent. Right now, I have seven girls: Poe (MRB), Gemma (custom SVB), Utopia (SM), Emilie (FT), Plum (Kozy), Pigeon (custom SS), and Nami (custom SM). Right now, I'm down to my core family of Blythes and I don't plan on letting any of them go. More information on Blythes can be found at these websites:
Other toys that I've been known to collect are: urban vinyl figures (including Dunnys, Tokidoki figures and Mad*Ls), Pinky Street figures, and anything kawaii related.
3. What nationality/ethnicity are you?
From all the photos I post of myself, I know that this question has come up a few times. I mean, am I Asian? Am I Spanish? What's going on here?
I'm actually half Filipino and half Polish. .tiff. was kind enough to let me know that the mix of culture and ethnicities makes me a hapa child. (I love that term!) My dad was born and raised in the Philippines and then came to the states for his residency. It was in the states that he met my mom. It's been difficult being raised by parents who rushed into marriage and then have to work to "share" the two differect cultures and lifestyles. I've learned that I have to depend on myself to define who I am, not my background, not my ethnicities. So now you know why I look Asian and why I look... something else!
On a side note: I know that I tend to look sixteen or seventeen-- nowhere near 23. I think that my mom's good genes and the fact that I'm part Asian attributes to the whole young look. Plus, I don't smoke, drink or fake-bake so I'm not getting those early-aged wrinkles and tight skin. So keep in mind that I'm not a little kid, haha.
4. So what are you majoring in?
I'm majoring in English. I switched my major from Journalism to English my Sophomore year of college and then transferred colleges. The majors change and the transfer hit me hard when it came to when I would graduate, which caused me to be in college for about five and a half years instead of the (hopeful) four years.
Update: I will be officially graduating in December 2008!
One thing you should know about me is that I need creativity. I live and breathe originality and aesthetics. Although I would have loved to involve art (painting, drawing, etc.) into my career, I just didn't think that I'd be able to make it in that art field in college. I've taken my art classes over the years in order to maintain a connection to the artistic world. I plan on keeping it as a heavy hobby. Since art would be difficult, I leaned towards my other artisitc passion: writing. Writing has always come easily and with love throughout the years.
While I had no idea what I wanted to do with my English major for a while, I finally realized that my true calling was with Professional and Technical Writing. So that's what I decided to put my major's emphasis on. Since that decision, I was able to land a great job with Six Apart (a blogging company) and have had the privilege of working on Vox Support. ^__^ I love my life!
5. Wait, why aren't you going into graphic design or something like that?
I wish I were. I really do. I just don't have the background to go through with finding a job with computers and graphic programs. I use Photoshop (and now Illustrator) for fun in my down time, but I think that making a career out of designing fun graphics would somehow ruin my passion for creating them. I think I have the creativity and drive in me to go through with a career with graphics, but for right now, I have to focus my attention on my major.
6. What's with the bracelets? They're always on you in your pictures. Any reason why?
Jen actually brought this to my attention in one of the last photos I posted of myself. These bracelets do have a very special meaning to me, actually. (Good eye, Jen!) Right now, I have five bracelets. They were all made by my wonderful Shawn over the past few years. He usually gives me one when we have an anniversary or special day. They don't exactly mark that day in particular, but instead, they let me remember how wonderful of a life I have with Shawn. I'm very lucky compared to a lot of people I know. I don't need anything store-bought; these bracelets, handmade, old and perfect, represent everything Shawn and I are together. They're real. I also never take them off. Once they're on, they're on. Some people may find that "disgusting," but I keep them clean and take good care of them.
7. How long have you been dating Shawn?
Shawn and I have been together for over six years now. A lot of people I come across find this amazing, considering our age. We're both 23; our birthdays are only four days apart from each other. (I'm older! Ha.) We first met in high school during our freshman year and became best friends there. We were in several classes together, which made it easy for us to get to know each other. The first time we ever talked was because of a project we were both assigned to. I had been sick the day that the projects were assigned, so when I came to school the next day, the teacher let me pick which group I wanted to be in. Of course, being the geek I was born to be, I didn't take a look at the groups, but instead, I looked at the books that were available. (I've always been a bookworm.) I didn't know it at the time but I had picked the only group that was all guys. What does that mean? That means that I would have to be the ringleader and do most of the work. Well, little did I know that my future boyfriend (no, not Shawn) and my other future boyfriend (yes, Shawn) were both in that group. That's when I met him and that's how we first started talking. Little did I know that Shawn had a huge crush on me. I was obsessed with him. The shared feelings didn't come out until over a year later, but by that time, I wanted independence. It would take three years after that first year for Shawn and me to begin dating.
Shawn and I have had ups and downs throughout our relationship, but unlike other relationships that we've come across with friends, ours is extremely solid. We have a set understanding between us for almost every problem that could possibly strike us. Even if we don't have something planned out, our levelheadedness enables us to pretty much endure any type of trouble that comes our way. My mom said it best: "You two have a very unusual relationship. There's no one else like Shawn out there. He's so special, Lauren. What you have is real." I never let these thoughts go. I know that I will marry Shawn one day. It's a fact. It's a given. It's a dream of mine.
I think that because of our relationship, I've grown to be somewhat haughty towards other people in relationships. It's a vice of mine that I'd one day like to rid myself of because I have a very pessimistic outlook towards other people in relationships. I've seen the mistakes that people make and I see the mistakes that they're making now. Because of this, I have an innate sense of who will last and who will end. I plan on using what I've learned in my relationship with Shawn and what I've learned from others to make a website offering advice to those in need of it. Hopefully, I can share my thoughts about love and life and get some sort of sense knocked into those that are lacking the sense in the first place.
See? Haughtiness.
8. Is Beth your friend, your roommate or your sister? Oh wait, are you twins?
I giggle everytime I hear this because, to me, it's obvious. I know, however, that I never really talk about my relationship with Beth in a straight-out fashion. So here it is: Beth and I are sisters. I'm older by 20 months but many people assume that Beth is the older one because of her height and because of the way she carries herself. I've been known to be the immature one in the past, but I think that our levels of maturity are now matched, just in different ways. Beth and I are extremely close. In fact, we're most likely closer than most twins can get because of the way we were brought up. We didn't have a lot of friends growing up so we tended to depend on each other for moral support as well as every other factor a kid needs to have. She knows me better than any other person and I can't see that changing. Beth says it best: "We have the same mind. We aren't two people; we're one person."
And what about that other sister of mine? Kathleen is a lot younger than Beth and me. She's five to six years younger than me, which is a huge difference. Recently, reality hit and I realized that her maturity level is higher than most of my friends. We've grown closer because I've acknowledged what an amazing little person she's become. Even though Kathleen and I didn't bond the same way Beth and I did when we were growing up, I think our relationship is growing more so right now. I love my little Poofer.
9. Can/will you make a Vox banner for me?
I'd love to make a banner for you! I do have a few requests myself though. If you would like a banner made, please:
- Have an idea of what you would like done in mind, so when you message/email me, I'll be able to have an easier time gathering ideas of what should be done in order to make the banner just right for you. After all, I want to personalize it to your liking as much as possible. ^_^
- Have photos/images/graphics that I can use for the banner. If you don't, I might be able to take photos for the banner myself. Just make sure you specify what you would like.
- Be patient. I'm a full-time college student right now, and my first priority is my studies. I can usually complete a banner within a week's time, but sometimes I may take longer. I usually message you to give you updates as I make progress, just so you don't think I've forgotten about you!
- Allow me to give myself credit on the banner. I only use a small line of text (© kawaii.vox.com). I trust that you will honor this wish, mainly because I don't want other people to come across the banner, steal it, and then claim it as their own work.
And that's it! I appreciate any interest show in my work, and it's always a pleasure to make others happy here at Vox.
Update: Because of my hectic schedule, I can no longer guarantee to make banner for people. It really depends on the specific time and the type of request made. Please feel free to message and ask anyway. ^^ I'll try to get back to you as soon as possible!
10. You don't have your driver's license? Why?
This question not only pops up here at Vox, but in my daily life when I interact with "real, live people," too. I took a driver's ed course back in high school during the same time when all of my friends were taking the course. My friend approached me with a different driving course, one that was offered by the Sears Department Store at our mall. I thought that would be more fun than having to go through my school.
Well, I had some bad experiences in that course. A few classes in, my friend, who initially presented the idea of taking the course to me, dropped out because of a school sport she was in. By then, I was left with strangers and a crazy driving instructor. That driving instructor scarred me for life. He disregarded everything I said about not having any experience behind the wheel. On the first day out, he threw me into the middle of a busy highway and expected me to just "get the hang of it." I'm still alive-- I'll say that much.
Ever since that course, I have had a fear of driving. I haven't had any huge problems with getting from place to place though. Shawn and Kathleen are always willing to help me get somewhere if I absolutely need to go. I usually walk to places instead of driving, which makes me believe that I'm actually benefiting not only myself, but the planet as well. I'll probably get it one day after I gain a little more confidence in that area of my life, but for now, I'm perfectly happy not having a license. I just don't like it when people push the idea on me. It's a fear of mine. I would never want to push a fear on anyone I care about, so I expect people to respect me just the same. <3
11. How can I reach you? Do you mind if I message you?
Because of my relaxed schedule, I'm online a lot. There are several ways you can reach me.
- IM me on AIM (gimme dollies)
- Email me (milkeyes@gmail.com)
- Facebook me
- Add me on Flickr (milkdoll)
- Add me on Twitter (milks)
- Private message me here on Vox (kawaii)
- Private message me on the forums: TIB (porcelain), PS (porcelain)
If you only know me through the internet, then I'll most likely not give out my address, phone number or any other piece of personal information. I need my privacy and I expect all my online friends to understand that. I love, love, love talking with new people (and old friends) on AIM, just as long as you respect me and what I have to say in my journal. If I'm ever curt or answer slowly, it's only because I'm working on something else at the time. Never take what I do or say too personally. ^_^
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[this is good] Aw Lauren, this post was so cool! I really enjoyed reading it. I love how you break things down. You never leave questions unanswered. I can't wait til you get your new cam! What brand are you going to get?
Posted by: Inga | December 10, 2006 at 10:45 PM
[this is good] great post covering lots of ground.
Posted by: haruszpapa | December 10, 2006 at 11:25 PM
[this is good] It's pretty funny that your blog on the fledgling Vox already needs an FAQ. You're a popular 21 year-old Wisconsinian. Wisconsion? Wisconsinite?
...person from Wisconsin.
Posted by: Paul | December 10, 2006 at 11:36 PM
thanks for all the information! i wondered about some of these things and now i know :)
Posted by: TM | December 10, 2006 at 11:44 PM
Breaking things down has become a habit... a really good habit, haha. I've learned to do that in papers that I write, so I figure that I should apply it to my Vox as well. I always feel like I'm forgetting to tell people something. Plus, it'll be easier redirecting people to this post instead of repeating myself. ^_~
I'm planning on getting a Canon for sure. (I really think that Canon produces the best results-- at least, from my experiences.) I've narrowed it down to two cameras, both of which are extremely good. I'll surprise you after I get it and let you know then! <3
Posted by: Lauren | December 10, 2006 at 11:53 PM
Hahaha, all of the above? I've heard "Wisconsinite" the most. I think it sounds funny but I use it, too. I don't know how I feel about being called popular, haha. I just like people here at Vox so I try to communicate with them the best ways possible. =D And that means I do crazy things like making FAQ sections. Mwa ha.
Posted by: Lauren | December 10, 2006 at 11:56 PM
thanks for letting us all know about the little things about you. :)
Posted by: ℓorie | December 11, 2006 at 12:12 AM
WHOA. I didn't know you were 21. wow. I thought you were like 16 or 17.
Posted by: Robot Scott | December 11, 2006 at 12:16 AM
im just amazed that you need to do something like this...its unreal.
Posted by: Noi Boi | December 11, 2006 at 12:58 AM
[this is good] This was quite entertaining to read... as your posts always are. =D
Posted by: fireisbeautiful | December 11, 2006 at 01:18 AM
Yeah, I look young. It annoys me now (because I still get carded for silly things) but everyone tells me that I'll love it later on. I think they're right.
I was going to add that confusiong about the age thing in there. Thanks for the reminder, tee hee.
Posted by: Lauren | December 11, 2006 at 08:15 AM
Haha, really? I didn't think it was that big of a deal. I like my Vox to stand out a little so I guess that's one reason I made this post. Plus, this is easier writing than repeating myself in PM's and comments.
Posted by: Lauren | December 11, 2006 at 08:16 AM
[this is good] lauren, great post. just enough info to keep your readers happy without crossing that "internet privacy" line so many crazies like to exploit. (what am i saying, i have my phone number on my website! but that's for business.)
anyways, hope you're having a good end-of-semester . . . have you gotten any more snow yet? we actually had snow here in DC on thursday night - just flurries - but we saw it when we went outside to make an entrance for the Revels show, and man, did it make the night feel so special! i wish DC wasn't so far from you . . . i think you'd love our show.
Posted by: erin*carly | December 11, 2006 at 09:21 AM
I love the bracelet concept - it's SO sweet! :) What a great blog entry! ox Thank you for sharing!
Posted by: kitty_curiosity | December 11, 2006 at 09:31 AM
[this is good] "...
but I think that making a career out of designing fun graphics would somehow ruin my passion for creating them
."
I think that's sums it up for me as well. I have found out about myself this year I am more of a tech ethusist than wanting to work on computers for a living. I love finding and sharing new website, new applications. Keeping it a "heavy hobby" hit the nail on the head. I think web browsing, blogging is my main outlet. If I had to choose between having cable and having the internet...it's the latter hands down and twice on Sunday.
Posted by: TechMusicGospel | December 11, 2006 at 09:33 AM
i always wanted to know your nationality but never asked. yeah, might be an asian thing to why you look young. im 22 and my hairdresser thought i was 15 in highschool. lol. and that's sweet of shawn to do with hte bracelets.
Posted by: Erly | December 11, 2006 at 10:47 AM
[this is good] Its amazing that your pictures are so consistently great given that most were taken with a 3.2 mp camera.
I can relate to you getting people who think dolls are for kids only, I have a small collection of anime inspired figures which most people think are for kids too, welcome to North America the land where no one gets it, lol.
I am also half Polish, the other half being Canadian, given that from my dad's side I'm 7th generation Canadian I can't see that they were originally either English or French matters anymore. Though up till a couple of years ago the Census bureau of Canada didn't recognize Canadian as a nationality, isn't that the ultimate governmental stupidity?!?
Anyways hope you continue to post your photos and thoughts for a long time
Jeff
Posted by: anjel | December 11, 2006 at 11:35 AM
This was fun to read, Lauren. Thanks for answering my question about the bracelets, hehe. I really like them, I was surprised to read that Shawn made them for you! That's so sweet of him, and really cool that you never take them off. From what I read, I have to agree with your mom when she said you two have something special. And I love that you know you'll marry Shawn, but that you aren't rushing into marriage. So many people are in such a hurry, but just knowing you love each other is enough for you, and that's great. You two are so lucky to have something like that, especially at such a young age. You've got a great head on your shoulders (as my dad would say, lol).
Posted by: Jen | December 11, 2006 at 12:02 PM
<3 Ah, you're so sweet, Jen. I commented at your Vox in response.
Posted by: Lauren | December 11, 2006 at 12:14 PM
Great way for us to know more about you, Laure!
=)
I hope you get your camera soon.
Posted by: ●Mami.Rosa● | December 11, 2006 at 12:22 PM
[this is good] I love your dolls and all your pictures, you are very talented
Posted by: little wonders | December 11, 2006 at 01:31 PM
I've learned to make the best of what I have, and that means make a 3.2 megapixel camera look like much more. =D Plus, I think it all depends on the composition and the artist's eye-- those really make the photos.
Whoa, I didn't realize that Canadian wasn't considered a personality. That's madness. That's kind of degrading to its own culture in a way. Every country goes through that kind of change at one point or another though.
Thanks so much for the compliments!
Posted by: Lauren | December 11, 2006 at 02:32 PM
That would be so sweet of Shawn if he could make me a bracelet. ^__^ I really do love them, maybe I can look around on the internet or a craft store and see if I can find anything on making them myself. You always have such pretty jewelry and clothes. :)
Posted by: Jen | December 11, 2006 at 03:13 PM
[this is good] thanks for the info...btw, you're a great writer! ;)
Posted by: ♥ Lady M ♥ | December 11, 2006 at 04:17 PM
As a person that has had many point and shoot cameras, and now has many digital SLR's, just go out and try as many of them in person as you can. Its not so much the mega pixels that matter (unless you are printing them above about 16x20 inch), but the quality of glass, compression used by the camera and the sensor that is in the cameras.
Try looking at dpreview.com for you cameras to read some things about them and check out real users opinions. They are good people there.
Posted by: Bryan Pearson | December 11, 2006 at 05:39 PM
I still can't believe you're only 21. From the little glimpse I have seen into your life through your postings, you seem so much older and wiser. A very mature 21!
Posted by: Baloo | December 11, 2006 at 06:47 PM
[this is good] this is a great read lauren,you put so much of you into your writing.
Posted by: maz | December 11, 2006 at 07:31 PM
beautifully written cheesehead, you are a very interesting person, i'm glad i've gotten to know you a little bit; your always so fun! :)
Posted by: Phillip | December 11, 2006 at 07:45 PM
[this is good] Wow. What a great post! Thank you for letting us know a little bit more about you and your life, very interesting indeedy! :)
Posted by: laurie | December 11, 2006 at 07:56 PM
[this is good] i always enjoy your posts. about #4, im actually thinking of switching majors. i've been doing art all my life and it is my passion, but im starting to wonder if im going in the graphic design field just because ive been doing it for so long and its my passion...or am i doing it for the career of it. i should write this in my blog. haha.
Posted by: Nora | December 11, 2006 at 08:01 PM
[this is good] very interesting post! and i must admit, i, too, tend to be somewhat haughty towards other couple relationships...! i guess it's something that individuals in long-term relationships, like you and me, develop over time. i don't think it's necessarely a vice :P btw, i added you as a contact on flickr!
Posted by: akaphonics | December 11, 2006 at 08:09 PM
oh and i forgot to add, i knew you had to be Filipina, but i never would have guessed half Polish! amazing blend - congrats to your 'ma and 'pa! you look supa!
Posted by: akaphonics | December 11, 2006 at 08:15 PM
Thanks so much. I'll definitely be studying this page before I decide on a camera for sure. I don't want to put a lot of money into a camera that I won't be completely satisfied with. I know that I definitely want a Canon, and I've seen some amazing results from the ones I'm thinking about.
Again, thanks a lot!
Posted by: Lauren | December 11, 2006 at 08:25 PM
Thanks, hon. <3 For some reason, I feel like I've lived a lot of lives in order to gain the belief system and common sense that I have. (I guess that's where my belief in reincarnation starts to surface.) I tend to learn from the mistakes of other people instead of having to experience them myself. That's what I get for being associated with certain people, haha.
Posted by: Lauren | December 11, 2006 at 08:28 PM
It's best to figure the whole major thing out sooner than later. If I would have just changed my major sooner, I could graduate (possibly) on time instead of having to waste another year of my life in school. I'm sure you'll figure things out. Once you do find the right career path, you'll definitely know it. If you're questioning it, just explore some of your other options. ^_^
Art and design may be a good passion for you, but I've learned that most passions are meant for personal time. I know that if I worked in a bookstore, I could possibly start loathing the written word, haha, because I'd be surrounded by what I love every day. I like to do most of my passions during my own time. You might find that it's the same with you, too. Then again, everyone's different! <3
Posted by: Lauren | December 11, 2006 at 08:32 PM
Thank you! That's really sweet. A lot of people find the combination of cultures really interesting. Haha, I get a lot of stares when people try to figure my background out.
I am so glad that I'm not the only haughty person in a relationship. I feel bad that I look down on others because of their choices in people they date, the mistakes they make, and the decisions they make... but it just comes naturally. I've learned to control my feelings though so I try to hold that haughtiness in, heh. (It sneaks out once in a while though.)
Posted by: Lauren | December 11, 2006 at 08:35 PM
Well, this is going to be long. (Just to warn you)
First of all, I hope I didn't seem pushy or made you uncomfortable when I asked if we could be penpals. I suppose it's a bit of something I take for granted (that online friends would be willing to give out addresses) and sometimes I forget that not everyone else will be as open with all aspects of their lives.
Second, wow. I had no idea that people were so adverse to the idea of collecting dolls! I suppose that I've been watching Japanese culture for so long (and in the meantime getting acquainted with all sorts of collectors) that it never once struck me as odd. Does this make me more of an international sort of person?
There is an awesome book at work called Part Asian/100% Hapa. Sometimes I wish that there was a good title for all people of mixed races. I don't really like calling myself 'mixed' because then I feel like something from the blender in your glass. But I have no idea what a good phrase would be to describe someone that is native american, black and caucasian.
I wish I would've had the chance to grow up with a sibling or two. My only sibling is a paternal sister who just turned 19 and lives in the Carolinas. We've talked on the phone, but I've never even seen a photo of her. We only started communicating this past fall.
Posted by: Girl Gone Mad | December 11, 2006 at 09:27 PM
I love my DS Lite. I don't think it's weird at all that you want one even though you already have a DS... I never owned a regular DS, but I heard the graphics on the Lite's were much better. When/if you get the FFIII game, you're going to love it... I can't stop playing. I was up until 2am last night playing and trying to level up my guys. It's such a cute game, they really did an excellent job at remaking the game from it's original. You're right, this one is no different from the other ones, they're all beautiful.
Tell Shawn thank you very much for making a bracelet for me. I like all of them so you can surprise me. I do love surprises. ^^ Eee, I'm excited now! <3
Also, I'm mailing out packages today, so you should be getting it sometime early next week (or late this week, if we're lucky!). I hope it gets there all in one piece. Keep an eye out for it. ^__~
Posted by: Jen | December 12, 2006 at 11:46 AM
[this is good] oh, gosh. i love this. i read a lot of faq's because i'm terribly curious by nature – which often gets me into trouble, but that's not the point.
the whole bit about the dollsies shocks me a bit. i never knew people thought it was immature to collect dolls. or maybe because most doll collectors do it to make a profit and not because they love it. i think it's pretty cool. low brow art is made of awesome, although i stick to 2D art rather than 3D. my stuffed animals are the only things allowed to take up more space than necessary. ha!
hapa – quite a term! i've seen it used around before, but i never really knew what it means.
and you and shawn, and you and your sisters are so adorable. seriously. and i guess your younger sister, is it? her highlights are pretty dang amazing. she reminds me of this girl my mom knows who owns an art/photography site. probably because she looks like her. cuh-razy!
Posted by: ashley | December 12, 2006 at 03:42 PM
[this is good] It looks liek I picked a good time to finally come by and check out your "spot" I read about you a few weeks back in Elle's post about photo editing and digital photography. I feel like I was really lucky to catch this little FAQ's post, it got me started off on the right foot. I am taking an interest in photgrtaphy and phot editing also, so I decided to come check out some of my inspirations' inspirations. It was nice getting to "know" you.
Posted by: Sista Blu | December 12, 2006 at 04:59 PM
Thanks for sharing that info. I really enjoyed reading all of it!
It's so cool how you've got mixed blood. I think that most kids whose parents are from two different racial backgrounds always end up good looking. =)
Posted by: Wissam | December 12, 2006 at 06:39 PM
I'm so glad that this was fun for other people. I love being able to release a little information about myself in small doses, but I think this larger dose will help the Voxers who regularly come to my journal get a better understanding of where I am in my life. Plus, those who are curious who don't know me as well... can be redirected to this in order to do so. Thanks so much for the positive feedback, Ashley.
Yeah, you wouldn't believe some of the crap I've heard from other people. A lot of people give me criticizing questions and stares when they find out that a 21 year-old collects dolls. I find it somewhat frustrating (and immature) that others aren't open to the idea of other hobbies out there. I mean, any hobby could be labeled strange. I think everyone has the right to be interested in something that might be a little "different."
Yeah, Kathleen is sixteen now, so she's the youngest. Beth once went through a stage when she highlighted her hair with vibrant colors, and Kathleen caught the color bug and hasn't stopped dying her hair since. It really suits her and her style though. I'm sure she'll be happy to hear you like it! <3
Posted by: Lauren | December 12, 2006 at 07:23 PM
Yay, I'm so happy you enjoyed it. ^_^ I didn't know if people minded reading through a longer post, but when personal information is involved with a friend, it's usually hard to resist. And thankies for the compliment. *blush* I've recently become more aware of my different looks. I always thought I was, well, just regular and average. I feel a little prouder to be of mixed blood now, tee hee.
Posted by: Lauren | December 12, 2006 at 07:25 PM
Thank you so much for coming by here. I think it's fate that you ended up coming here when this post is rather new. You got the quick intro to my life! Haha, lucky you. ^_~ I really hope that you get into photography more. Mama Elle is really having fun (I think) with what she's learning. It's all trial and error until you find your own style/passion for it. If you ever need any advice, just let me know.
Posted by: Lauren | December 12, 2006 at 07:27 PM
I love your posts. They're definitely one of the reasons I love having you in my neighborhood. This post was definitely fun to read (unlike most FAQs you get with new equipment or found on some corporate websites). Your posts are always so well written.
I definitely wondered about your nationality and assumed Filipino initially anyway. I get Filipino a lot but I'm not at all.
And you and Shawn are the cutest and sweetest ever. I love reading when you write about something you both did.
Posted by: Lili | December 12, 2006 at 07:39 PM
I think you are a Vox Supa star!
I'm hapa too, Wait, isn't hapa a hawaii term? I forget where youre from.
Posted by: Robot Scott | December 12, 2006 at 10:27 PM
That's what I thought, too. Someone who knows more about what "hapa" is informed me I was hapa not too long ago. I asked the same thing but she told me that all mixed children (who I think are part Asian) are considered hapa.
After looking it up on Wikipedia (not always reliable, but sometimes), I found out that "hapa" is a Hawaiian term, but it means "portion, fragment, part, fraction, partial," etc. In other words, it means "mixed descent." In my case, I'm considered hapa pilipino. That's so cool!
Thanks for reminding me to look it up. ^^ I probably would have forgotten to. Here's where I got my info: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hapa
Posted by: Lauren | December 12, 2006 at 10:39 PM
[this is good] i think it's safe to say lauren that you are just about one of the most popular gals in the vox world!
it's lovely to see you share your life on here.
no to mention, rock on that you're 21! I just turned 21 too!
p.s. we should be facebook friends, i'll send you my info laturz :)
Posted by: .tiff | December 13, 2006 at 12:40 AM
You know, I didn't realize how much we had in common until I read this entry. I am 16 months older than my sister. I am a journalism (and teaching)major with a minor in English. Like you, writing comes so easily to me and is who I am at my very core. I also MUST have my creative outlets or I fail to exist! And I am also a cam whore, like yourself...but I stick with vintage (manual) Canons. Go us, huh!? :)
Posted by: Kristin Parker | December 13, 2006 at 03:50 AM
Woo, that's awesome, Tiff! I feel so special, especially hearing that from you, who knows blogs a lot better than most people. Everyone is just so wonderful here. ^__^ That's awesome that you're 21-- it's a world a difference than 20! Haha.
And I replied to your message. <3
Posted by: Lauren | December 13, 2006 at 04:02 PM
Whoa, you're right-- we do have a lot in common. That's so cool. I think that Canons, no matter what era they're from, are just amazing. I like that we're similar, yet different. I bet manual Canons are just as fun. =D
Posted by: Lauren | December 13, 2006 at 04:03 PM
[this is good] Wow, all the things I wanted to know but thought to rude to ask . . . you're part psychic too I guess. We have a lot in common: Asian heritage, English majors, camera lovers. I love having a creative outlet - this past semester I wrote a term paper mimicking the style of Chaucer in Middle English . . . eet was quite badde, not veery polished but eek fun. What is your favorite "time period" of English literature?
p.s. I love your pics, could you post some sort of tutorial on how to make pictures better looking in Photoshop?
Posted by: Kia | December 13, 2006 at 08:57 PM
It's great to come across another English major. A lot of people I come across who are writers are usually Journalism majors (which is what I used to be until I woke up from an eternal sleep, heh). Hmm. My favorite period in English literature would have to be anywhere around the 17th Century and on. I've actually become very open to most of literature because of some amazing Comparative Literature courses I've taken, which is a huge reason why I've decided to major in Comparative Literature. A big eye-opener was Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice. It's a beautifully complicated book and I learned so much from reading it.
I'll definitely think about posting a tutorial sometime. The only thing that makes me hesitant is that I'm not sure I'm as familiar as some of the experts are with the program. I have some personal and very particular methods that I follow and I'd feel a little funny about opening them up to everyone. I'll think about it though-- it's a great idea! If I decide not to, then I'll try to hunt down some helpful sites that have already made tutorials. ^___^
Posted by: Lauren | December 13, 2006 at 10:33 PM
[this is good] You should meet my friend Kir (Gema) from Spain... she's amazing with customizing dolls and such! :)
http://kir.vox.com/
Have you seen the lovely version of Pride and Prejudice (Special Edition) (1996)
Starring: Colin Firth, Jennifer Ehle from A&E? Even a major plot point in Bridget Jones's Diary hehe
http://www.amazon.com/Pride-Prejudice-Special-Simon-Langton/dp/B00005MP58
You might (I'm thinking) enjoy The Eyre Affair by
Jasper Fforde Pet Dodos!! ^^
http://www.amazon.com/Eyre-Affair-Jasper-Fforde/dp/0142001805/sr=8-2/qid=1167097591/ref=pd_bbs_2/105-5687783-4517232?ie=UTF8&s=books\http://www.amazon.com/Eyre-Affair-Jasper-Fforde/dp/0142001805/sr=8-2/qid=1167097591/ref=pd_bbs_2/105-5687783-4517232?ie=UTF8&s=books
Take">http://www.amazon.com/Eyre-Affair-Jasper-Fforde/dp/0142001805/sr=8-2/qid=1167097591/ref=pd_bbs_2/105-5687783-4517232?ie=UTF8&s=books">http://www.amazon.com/Eyre-Affair-Jasper-Fforde/dp/0142001805/sr=8-2/qid=1167097591/ref=pd_bbs_2/105-5687783-4517232?ie=UTF8&s=books\http://www.amazon.com/Eyre-Affair-Jasper-Fforde/dp/0142001805/sr=8-2/qid=1167097591/ref=pd_bbs_2/105-5687783-4517232?ie=UTF8&s=books
Take care and have a great holiday season!
Mike
Posted by: Mikey | December 25, 2006 at 07:53 PM
You know Gema? =D I do, too! We met through the ThisIsBlythe forum a while back, and she sells me such beautiful Blythe hats for all my girls. I even sent her a Christmas package a few weeks ago, because she's just so sweet. I've never met her in person, but I would love to one day. She has so much talent. I try to visit her Vox regularly. ^^
I saw a few minutes of that version of Pride and Prejudice. I read the book for one of my Comparative Literature classes, and then we watched the end of the film. (I've heard that it's very long, but also that it follows the book really well.) I loved Colin Firth in it. His acting is so well done in whatever he's in. I think he was perfect for the part of Mr. Darcy...
Thanks for the recommendation of The Eyre Affair. I haven't read that yet, but I'll have to check it out. I have a good amount of gift card money for Barnes & Noble, so the timing is perfect.
Happy holidays to you, too! ^___^
Posted by: Lauren | December 26, 2006 at 10:55 AM
I should have known that you'd know the lovely Gema already! ^^ How about Pavali from Denmark?? lol Don't know why they "adopted" me, but maybe because of the uber-cute "Princess" Emma, the daughter of an old friend of mine (Happa - 1/2 Japanese - 1/2 Irish) I've been documenting on my blog almost since her birth... Now, she has a sister Elizabeth, one year old.
I mostly post on http://www.tabulas.com/~Mikeymike/ but most of Emma's pix are friends-only... An account is free at Tabulas, so if you want too... Or, here:
http://www.tabulas.com/~MikeyMike/1338217.html
I made it public, since few peeps look backwards too far... Gema and Pavali are her "Aunties" too!
P&P is 300 minutes, but the best I've seen. I've given this one as a gift so many times! One of my all time favorites, along with the Chinese movie The Road Home (Zhang Ziyi's first film). The Eyre Affair is a hoot for the literate!
And since you've got that B&N card in your hand... have you heard of Joanne Harris?? Chocolat and Five Quarters of the Orange I'd especially recommend. Was it to you I was talking about book/films? I this case, the book is definately better than the movie - richer, more mystical. The Rachel Portman (She also did The Joy Luck Club) score is lovely though... and if you're a huge Jonny Depp fan... ^^
Posted by: Mikey | December 26, 2006 at 06:42 PM
This was very interesting. Yes, I finally found the time to do a little reading. What a month, huh? *huggles*
Posted by: Pixie Wildflower | December 27, 2006 at 04:23 PM
I love getting to know people better that I read about on the internet. It's just fascinating. So, this post was a lot of fun to read! And I want to tell you that I share your fear of driving! I do have my license, but it's very rare that I drive now that I've moved to a big city. My poor boyfriend shuttles me everywhere.. but we usually go everywhere together anyway.. so it's not that big of a deal. So anyway, don't feel alone in your fear! <3
Posted by: Stephanie | May 07, 2007 at 05:25 PM
wow, this is good!! thanks for the info :)
Posted by: Sandals | July 26, 2007 at 11:13 AM
Jinkies! That's a great post!
Posted by: Cory Roberts | July 28, 2007 at 02:56 PM
Mabuhay!!!!I was wondering what your nationality was too... I am 3/4 filipino and 1/4 "haole" which means white person in hawaiian. The haole part is german, irish, spanish, american indian. I think we as Filipinos are blessed because we tend to look younger than we really are. My boyfriend ( he's filipino/ hawaiian) and I are ALWAYS told we look younger than we really are. Great post!
Posted by: Mimi3000: Blog U Like A Hurricane | February 07, 2008 at 01:51 AM
[this is good]
"We have a set understanding between us for almost every problem that could possibly strike us. "
It is amazing that you both managed to guide through the winding and somewhat complicated route called relationship, and still very much in love after 6 years. Kudos to you both!
To be honest, this is my first time browsing Vox and your blog attracts me alot with your vivid images and fluid writing style. Your banner is indeed artistic and i'd love to try making one if you can provide me with the specs.
I'm a regular blogger as well and have been using Blogdrive in recent years, but i'm looking for something new yet simple to continue my blogging. Can you give me some tips on using Vox? Like where can i find customised templates/styles for Vox and etc?
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Hi
Art and design may be a good passion for you, but I've learned that
most passions are meant for personal time. I know that if I worked in a
bookstore, I could possibly start loathing the written word, haha,
because I'd be surrounded by what I love every day. I like to do most
of my passions during my own time. You might find that it's the same
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Posted by: Brittany | November 03, 2009 at 09:00 AM
Hello very interesting post! and i must admit, i, too, tend to be somewhat
haughty towards other couple relationships...! i guess it's something
that individuals in long-term relationships, like you and me, develop
over time. i don't think it's necessarely a vice :P btw, i added you as
a contact on flickr!
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Posted by: Brittany | November 03, 2009 at 09:04 AM